Hello and Welcome! Many years ago a book called The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz was released. It spoke to me. I thought it was a must-have for everyone I knew. It had this simple message to live with integrity and to live in a way that centers internally, harmony with your inner knowing, speech and actions. I felt the simplicity was perfect and that it was written with clarity to guide anyone who chose to read it toward a centered, existentially responsible style of living.
The agreements he wrote about are simply:
- Be Impeccable with your Word
- Don’t Take anything Personally
- Don’t Make Assumptions
- Always Do your Best
It was my holiday gift that year to every one of my family members, and all the people that mattered to me. I wanted to share this truth with everyone, because I thought it would assist them in upleveling their consciousness. I felt it held information that would unlock the prisons in which people lived.
I was a younger therapist then – enthusiastic, earnest, passionate – I really wanted to make a difference and change the world. I gave this book in this way with heartfelt love, and a deep desire to help. I thought it held a treasure worth more than a typical holiday gift because it offered freedom and a deep inner peace.
I am pretty sure none of these important people in my life read that book, at least not that year. For whatever reason it wasn’t the time for that kind of transformation then.
This had been the story of my life, for many years; I could see the way but what spoke to me so clearly did not always speak to others.
Over the years I have had unusual success as a therapist through my neutral clarity, and compassionate communications. Those who have chosen to seek my guidance have discovered a wealth of effective, compassionate, and life-changing counsel. Recently, I have noticed that those in my inner circle are too experiencing the positive effect of my writing and guidance… this is a sweet gift to witness the positive growth and happiness of those I deeply love.
Reference to the four agreements are also on the rise in spiritual teachings, in Yoga articles, and other pieces on spiritual growth. Perhaps the time is now, for a more comprehensive alignment to take place. I noticed in these references that there is a new book which identifies a new agreement:
5. Be skeptical, but learn to listen.
So apt for the capping to the first four – it aligns the focus even further within, it allows for a deeper inner review and a consolidated expression of love, acceptance, mindfulness, and responsibility for knowledge, speech and action.
For me these simple statements refocus power and energy within; they are the opposite of projection and divisiveness.
These four agreements, plus one, are an easy way to center yourself and focus your energy where you actual have power, in the here and now and within yourself. The energy behind these agreements is to shift your focus and awareness inward, with integrity in speech and action, while through self-love and compassionate action toward others you can increase your mindfulness.
Here is a lovely site about this work and more information about how to use these four agreements to guide your life, http://www.toltecspirit.com/.
And remember be skeptical – listen with your inner ear and through your internal sensory guidance system of five plus one senses, seeing in 4-D. In this way you will be in the driver’s seat of your life and creating precisely what you want and consciously mean to create. in love and light, beth
August 16, 2012 at 1:32 pm
This was the greatest blog ever! I am going to post the 5 agreements around the house as a constant reminder of the changes I need to make within myself!! I have always been what I thought other people in my life wanted me to be!!! I really need to get centered and balanced for my own sake, so I can deal better with the things going on in my life and to become what ( I WANT TO BE). Your the greatest!!! I am eternally greatful to Ron for introduc ing Me to You!!!
August 16, 2012 at 2:20 pm
Dear Lisa, I am so happy this spoke to you!! xoxo, beth
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